I sympathize with you on this. I have a friend I've known since elementary school who has basically been sitting by his pool for the last 40 years, and in the last 10 years, finishing off the day in his hot tub. I wanted to strangle myself every time I'd go to his house and about 6 of us would sit on his shitty deck all day by the pool. I need fucking adventure. I want those years back.